Nowadays it is fashionable to live in a civil marriage, as it is also called. Those who live under one roof, consider themselves independent of the parental family, try to demonstrate their independence and move on to "practical matters" as quickly as possible. Many sincerely do not understand the meaning of the stamp "married" in the passport, not to mention the beautiful wedding ceremony, saying that it is just a formality, and a wedding costs money. Our general ignorance of the interconnection of energies is to blame.
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In the kin’s settlements wedding is an integral part of the beginning of joint family life. People who have experienced the wedding ceremony and those who have not experienced it can be compared to plants: one is watered, the other is not. They both grow, but the plant that has been watered grows better.
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The wedding ceremony and its peculiarities are described in the series of books by V. Megre "Ringing Cedars of Russia". On the wise experience and patterns of ancestors and now celebrate weddings in the kin’s settlements.
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Having decided to create a family, a couple turns to the elders of the kin’s settlement for blessing and words of wisdom and receives them in the common circle. After that, a wedding ceremony is held at the most auspicious time. Both astronomically and astrologically this time is arranged in such a way that the energies of the Planets and Stars are in mutual harmony and can strengthen the creative unity of the couple. The state of the force of nature to which the newlyweds belong is harmonized accordingly.
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Guests are invited to the ceremony in advance: relatives, close friends and neighbors. There is no alcohol at weddings in the kin’s settlements.
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A wedding ceremony is held, and the laying of a future garden on the family plot is planned in advance. The newlyweds themselves plant plants in the ancestral circle from east to west, often the number of plants depends on the number of desired children, but this is not a prerequisite. And in the center of the circle they plant an ancestral tree. Guests also plant plants brought as gifts in the plot of the new family. This is an obligatory ritual at weddings in kin’s settlements, because the kin’s domain of the newlyweds is more than just a house for living - it is a place where the family, according to the idea, settled for centuries. This means that in the future, grandchildren, most likely, will go to these places.
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Residents of the kin’s settlements are convinced that such a wedding celebration and advance preparation according to all the rules forms the energy base on which the further life of the family is built, including the birth and upbringing of children. Therefore, the wedding ceremony has an important practical and scientific significance. The external attributes of the wedding symbolize the preservation and increase of the united energy of the family and contribute to the formation of new bases for spiritual growth.
