More and more often one can notice that people who have read "green books" not only start to build houses far from the city and equip their kin's domain, but also unite and organize festivals!
They restore folk costumes, take an interest in the history and traditions of the area where they live!
To understand why they organize festivals in the kin's settlements and why it is so loved, we should first understand what happens in the city with most people? People feel loneliness more and more, less and less often go to hobby groups, less and less often want to stand out with unique clothes. They sing less and less while doing the same kind of work.
Are there any festivals in the city? Of course they do! You come to everything ready-made, get short-term emotions, but do not get the skills and joy of communication.
In order to organize a holiday, you need to prepare a place. Think about treats for the guests, think about who will cook and clean up. To think over the script - and according to it all participants learn songs, dances, learn poems. Someone prepares the territory, someone prepares announcements about the holiday. All these actions teach people to interact in a team and build good human relations with each other. Not business, not family, but good neighborly relations.
Life in the kin's settlement is like constant training - a method of active learning aimed at developing knowledge, skills, and social attitudes.
This is because all the settlers are different: from different social strata, from different families, with different views on life. Although, it would seem, the settlers are united by one common idea - kin's domains.
And, precisely, one of the reasons for the importance of organizing holidays in kin's settlements is not fun and amusement, but interaction with people at a higher level - interaction with other people's pride, heartache, disappointments, fears and concerns.
It is important to realize that living in a kin's settlement is not only about creating space on your own kin's domain, it is also about creating a shared space. After all, you can sit behind a fence, but sooner or later you will have to come out.
After all, children will not want to socialize only with their parents. They will want to communicate with their peers, and these peers are in the neighbourhood. And one way or another, it will have to be done through children or for the sake of children.
Among Anastasians, one can often hear the phrase about joint creation and joy for all from contemplating it. But not many people are willing to work with their soul pain. And until you remove this pain from your soul, you will not discover love in yourself.
You can endlessly resent other people for not understanding you, consider them fools, scold others and feel sorry for yourself. But this will not change anything. You need to get rid of pride, forgive others, forgive yourself.
And starting all over again. Going to holidays again, events and sometimes going over the same lesson again and again from different angles. Friction still arose and arises, but with each new time will come the feeling that you begin to understand other people.
Having overcome yourself in such a situation, you become stronger, a core appears inside. And in all this process you learn to listen not only to your own soul, but also to the souls of other people.
And the very atmosphere of the holiday in the kin's settlements justifies the name of the event - holiday! Every woman puts on the best outfit, brings ruddy healthy children, and for a man the very praise is his happy wife and children.
Older people incorporate all their wisdom and skills into the festivities, showing the younger ones an example. While in the city people do not experience the same emotions, expectations and collective responsibility during the preparation of a holiday.
It is important and necessary for all residents to participate in the organization of holidays in the kin's settlements in order to give children and themselves the joy of communication, real friends, joint work, and themselves a state of wonder and faith in the beautiful! This is the basis for forming a healthy, ecological society, able to interact with each other, as well as to listen and hear.